Will you dump your man for being so lier cheater and great pretender?

Having space to yourself takes courage. It is not following style but following your inner space. It’s very healthy to just be yourself. I got a big nod from it. Taking off from that lies cheat and pretend from life’s partner i come to think of on how to define the ways to design space of my own.Everything starts with independence.You cannot define yourself if you are a parasite.Invest in myself by looking beyond myself.Self empowered.I read up…stimulating mind is Sexy.I learned to know Solitude..journey into myself. And, when i go to battle, i know also when to retreat.When the going gets so rough, and i’ve had it with being tough,i just run for cover.I do a momentary retreat and seek refuge in prayers.
I now learn to live without a man, and im ready to live with one. I am Ellen thepianist@yahoo.com.ph

Lets see..you name yourself a bit ch … an empress no less!!! and you announce alomost unintellgibly that you are "ready " to live with a man? I hope you do not also mean you are ready to have children. I really hope you are not saying that.

And you think men and women should what? JUMP for joy at your announcement????

Ok, girl..

A. Go for that GED. It is very important.
B. Get a dictionary.
C. Do not be ready to live with a man quite yet.

I agree with some of what you said..but I am not convinced ( not that you need to convince me , a stranger to you ) that you are "ready" for much of anything yet.

You need to prepare yourself for marriage ..not for living with some guy.. marriage is for a lifetime..not a few minutes while a few more babies who won’t be raised properly will be produced. You are not just some stupid baby machine..and if all you do is to produce babies to a series of men who refuse to provide them with anything … then you will not even be a good mommy and all you will have proven..is that you are a stupid baby machine who does not even care about the babies she might bring into the world.

Grow up, woman. Grow up.