I can’t stop thinking negatively about everything, how can I start to be more positive?

I feel guilty about everything I do, I feel negative about everything, I can’t think of anything positive about myself.. I’m only 20 and it’s starting to affect my everyday life, it’s practically automatic.. how do I break the habit?
i think i might have ocd.. i can’t stop thinking about things I regret and i literally can’t stop worrying, how do I calm down?

give yourself a gift. you deserve it. Use the gift every day and tell yourself how special you are now that you have the really nice thing that you bought.

Is it "positive thinking" to believe that there’s something better out there for me ? Or am I deluding myself?

in terms of relationships and careers

I’m concerned that by wondering about the grass being greener, I don’t fully make the most of the what’s actually happening to me

There is no point just having a general belief that things will get better. You have to decide what it is that want and pursue it.

Make a plan, take action and keep focused on what you want. It doesn’t have to be a great plan and you don’t need to know how to do it.

Just take the best first step you can think of and the rest will come to you.

Positive thinking has gotten a bad rep lately, but it really just means thinking about what you want and not about what you don’t want.

We need positive thinking as well as negative thinking right?

by remembering the good times, you stay positive. And you end up falling back in love with people who done you wrong. We much think negative as well, which isn’t healthy but it’s to avoid them hurting you again and it’s who they are.

When i am positive i forget & forgive the wrongs and miserable people always remind me they still don’t like me so i have to remember the bad in them to avoid getting hurt again & to give them their space.
We need positive thinking as well as negative thinking right?

Hi. I agree partly. I believe it’s important to be a positive thinker. I do at time think of actual events that have happened and I choose not to be around people who do not change and our negative. Peace

Whats the best way to reprogram,change negative thinking to positive?

Whats the best way to reprogram,change negative thinking to positive? When you find your self always thinking negatively and expecting worse how can you those thoughts?

You must lead by example, and win peoples respect in order to show them just what positive thinking can do. I don’t think you reprogram anyone. Thinking is your thought process in which is influenced by what environment it is surrounded by. If you hang out with losers then you will become a looser. Birds of a feather flock together, so in order to change from negative to positive thinking, the leaders must be positive, and lead by a positive example. If you think you will loose, then you will loose. If you think you will win then you will loose too, if you don’t construct a foundation that shows everyone around you the brighter side of winning. You will find that most negative thinking comes from lazy people who had rather accept anything that comes down the road. Have fun!

Why do we always seek to turn negative thinking into positive thinking ?

To win in life.

howc an I change my way of thinking and be positive?

I really want to be positive and make my drems come true .But my thought process retards me from my targets. So i want to change my thinking process.

You are the same as me.Read books, especially thoughts that inspire you. Bath in hot water,go for a drive and listen to soothing music.This will help you.

If winter comes, spring cannot be far away.

Thinking of converting FROM Islam, what are the positive sides of islam?

Thinking of converting FROM Islam, what are the positive sides of islam?

You probably know nothing about islam.
The reason you want to convert from islam is because of what ‘they’ say.
I don’t even belief you are for real. But if you really are muslim, and if you really are thinking about converting from islam. You should think it over. You should go and look for the truth yourself. Why do you depend on people? What do they know? Islam is one and all positive, anyone who knows a little about it knows that. Islam teaches PEACE. Islam means peace. And the media and many people try to make it look bad. And some muslims can’t really tell you more then you know. But remember muslims don’t make islam! Look at the religion not those who practice it. A known mistake is better than an unknown truth.

what is a song that contributes to positive thinking and acting?

im doing a project on positive thinking and i need a song to go with it

I know some older songs that were used when I was a kid for a project very similar. They are probably dated sounding to you though, but the lyrics and the content are positive and happy in many ways.

They are both by the rock group Triumph (old Canadian band) They were such great group.

Magic Power
Follow Your Heart

Also, I don’t know what your religious angle is, but I know a few other songs that are positive and uplifting.

Feel by Michele Tumes
Creed by Petra

Petra and Michelle Tumes are Christian Music stars. Both songs are very good, and not preachy. Just talking about the power of positive thinking and about a love from above.

I must admit that I am at a loss with any positive song from the last few years. Not saying that there isn’t, but these songs I wrote down are definites in the world of positive.

Any tips for positive thinking?

perhaps quotes from power of positive thinking by Dale C.
or whatever makes you think positive??!?!?!?!?!

get self help books–they r cool

I am looking for a good insprirational uplifting book.. Positive thinking and stuff like that!?

I would like a law of attraction, or any other ideas for one anyone might have.
Thanks yahoo friends
I would like a motivational, self help book ideas too!! Thank you

Check out Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsche. I love them, but for some reason could never get into The Secret. They’re different too, more about the evolution of God than what was written in the bible (without making mankind’s version of that God obsolete, rather merging those idea with ideas of today) and they’ve been very inspiring to me.

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